While I can't really disagree that social media has
many negative effects, I wholeheartedly disagree with the statement that "folks have no need to be real any longer, if they ever were".
I've experienced this first hand in the military and civilian sectors. Posers, frauds, imitators and liars will almost ALWAYS reveal themselves when you meet them in person. When it's go time.
Anyone can look cool with carefully selected filters and post-edits, and perfectly staged photos. Same can be said for what I'm doing now - banging away on a keyboard. I can quickly google just about anything and appear super smart online, but if I can't talk the talk and walk the walk when we meet in person, well there it is.
But at some point, we have to interact in the real world. We have to leave the internet - and social media. If you and your online presence are vastly different, people notice right away.
Just my opinion, bit I see the challenge today is to embrace being real. To embrace the authentic people and reject the airbrushed fakes. No filters. No fakes. No weak shit. No narcissistic posers.
I gravitate towards that myself, and I try to stay mindful towards balance and humility. Which is why I don't like selfies and avoid the camera myself. Nobody wants to see my mug, and Photoshop can't fix ugly anyway
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